Awhile back when Maya Angelou passed away, I saved an article called “21 Life Lessons from Maya Angelou.” Today, as I was looking through some post ideas, I stumbled upon it. July has been quite the transitional month for me, so a little reminder of some life lessons should be excellent.
It is Marvelous Monday, after all. I’m linking up with Katie.
I picked out some of the lessons that most strongly resonated with me.
“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Try to be a rainbow in someone else’s cloud. Do not complain. Make every effort to change things you do not like. If you cannot make a change, change the way you have been thinking. You might find a new solution.”
Holy cow, do I need to remember this one! I have been working hard to follow this idea. I try not to complain too much (although, I admit, I do spill it out on my fiance and sister in law every once in awhile). The real effort for me is also underlined. When something is bothering me, I really try to take a step back and ask myself if there is anything I can do to make a change. If there is, I try to do it. If not, I need to reframe my thinking and find a way to let it go (or at least deal with it).
“I did what I knew…. When I knew better, I did better.”
This quote is so simple, yet it speaks volumes. I have encountered this in soooooo many stages of my life.
- Running my first 5K, and improving from there.
- Choosing friends that may not have appreciated or accepted me, and learning to move away from those people later’
- Allowing my fear of flying to keep me away from amazing views like this, and then deciding to bite the bullet and travel!
- Running too hard in marathon training until I injured myself, then having to lay off much more than I wanted to.
- Teaching my first yoga class and trying to be someone else. Now, I have to be myself!
“You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.”
This is something I am constantly trying to remember in my big career change.
I know that people, even those closest to me, have judged my decision and even maybe bashed it behind my back. At first, it bugged me a little. Now, I see it totally differently. I know that what I am doing is the right thing for me. Whatever people may think about it doesn’t matter. I am working hard to be successful and do what makes me happy, I have a fiance who backs me 100% in this, and that is all I need.
Do any of these lessons resonate with you? Tell me your story!